How Will This Book Help?
Perhaps you have only begun to accept the truth. You have seen the signs of your deteriorating relationship. Your partner is distant and has no time for you. There never seems to be a good time to address issues. Work demands or spending time with the children have become an excuse to avoid you and discussing your relationship.
The reality is that your partner is distancing from you. The marriage suddenly seems like a bridge crumbling between you. How can you shore the pillars of the relationship to keep the marriage from crumbling into a divorce?
You feel the pressure of knowing that your response will affect the future of the relationship. How do you respond to your mate’s uncertainty? You can’t really think about it, yet it never leaves your mind. You want to avoid a divorce, but you feel overwhelmed. It isn’t fair! You need time to absorb the reality of the situation. The relationship is fragile and you don’t want to do anything to cause it to break apart.
You can gain control! Even though you can’t control your partner, you can gain control over your reaction to the crisis. A crisis can breed chaos if you and your companion react emotionally to one another. You do not have to take immediate steps to provide life support for your marriage. You deserve the opportunity to get your emotions under control before you respond to your partner.
This book will guide you through the typical reactions you are likely to have during this crisis. This knowledge can help you examine your reaction to determine if you are ready to respond to your companion in a constructive manner. By gaining control over your emotions you can direct the marriage into calmer waters.
By reading this book you will be able to gain awareness of how your relationship has changed and how you can find unexpected power to influence the outcome of this crisis in your marriage:
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Are you experiencing relationship problems in your marriage or a
Are you experiencing relationship problems in your marriage or a marriage crisis? What is the difference? Why this answer is crucial
to know.
•Understand why your relationship with your spouse has changed
Understand why your relationship with your spouse has changed so dramatically and so quickly. No it doesn't necessarily mean
that there is someone else.
•How to keep your feelings from harming the future of your
How to keep your feelings from harming the future of your relationship. Learn how to manage your anger, anxiety and
depression.
•Gain a glimpse of the inner world of an ambivalent spouse trying to choose whether to remain married or divorce. Get answers to
Gain a glimpse of the inner world of an ambivalent spouse trying to choose whether to remain married or divorce. Get answers to questions your partner will not, or cannot answer.
•Understand the inner tensions that keep your mate from coming
Understand the inner tensions that keep your mate from coming to a quick decision.
•Prevent impulsive or emotional decision-making that may later be
Prevent impulsive or emotional decision-making that may later be regretted.
•Respond to your partner in a way that reduces the distance in
Respond to your partner in a way that reduces the distance in your relationship. Find surprising changes you can make for
yourself that will attract your mate to the marriage.
•Help family and friends maintain support without becoming
Help family and friends maintain support without becoming intrusive.
•Determine whether a separation can benefit your marriage.
Determine whether a separation can benefit your marriage.Understanding Your Distancing Partner
This 14-page ebook will help you to understand the thoughts and actions of a partner whose commitment to the marriage has become uncertain. You will learn why his or her reactions are so hurtful. You will also learn how to respond so that you will prevent further hurt, gain personal power and preserve the marriage.
Responding to the Crisis in Your Marriage
Perhaps you have only begun to accept the truth. You have seen the signs of your deteriorating relationship. Your partner is distant and has no time for you. There never seems to be a good time to address issues. There is always an excuse given to avoid talking about the marriage.
The reality is that your partner is distancing from you and the excuses hide the fact that your partner’s commitment to the marriage is uncertain. This 13-page ebook will help you understand how to respond so that you will not harm your relationship and will do your best to attract your partner's commitment to the relationship.
Establishing Relationship Power &
Encouraging Good Decision-Making
This 20-page double ebook helps you to avoid the trap of falling into emotional decision-making during a crisis in your marriage. You will learn how to build personal power by becoming the director of this crisis rather than reacting out of panic or fear. By encouraging good decision-making, you and your partner can avoid regrets over decisions made too quickly or out of anger.
Establishing Personal Worth &
Managing Your Mood
During a marital crisis, it is important for the rejected partner to maintain self-worth and manage his or her mood. This 34 page ebook explains the futility of pursuing a partner who is not committed to the marriage. Instead, you will learn to send a message of worth that communicates your value and attracts, rather than pursues your partner. Also, you will learn to manage the depression, anxiety, and anger that undermines your ability to make good decisions during this time of crisis in your relationship.
Distancing from Your Partner:
Using Separation to Save Your Marriage
A separation communicates, “I am willing to withdraw from our relationship until you let me know you are committed to the relationship.” This is not a statement of powerlessness; it is a statement of strength. You choose to give your spouse distance. You are willing to give your spouse distance from the emotional push and pull that arises when you interact. This 15-page ebook guides you through the process of establishing a healthy marital separation and a path toward reconciliation with your partner.
Deciding What You Want
Before You Leap in or Out of the Marriage
Your partner claims to have changed and is offering you a "new and improved" relationship. But how can you know that this is real change and not another manipulation? This 18-page ebook helps you to answer these questions and decide whether to risk reconciliation with your partner.
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I Love You But I'm Not in Love With You: Is Your Relationship in Crisis?
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This 9-page ebook will help you to identify the signs of a marital crisis and help you to understand why your relationship has changed (and how to respond).
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I highly recommend this book because it's written with the kind of clarity that makes it immediately useful. While fully acknowledging the dire circumstances of a crumbling commitment, it offers realistic hope that it's possible to survive this marital crisis. Best of all, it backs up that hope with specific step-by-step guidelines for moving forward. Another of its strengths is that it offers a path through this crisis for both the offended and the pursuing partner. If you're dealing with a crumbling commitment in your marriage, read this book now!
Peggy Vaughan, author of "The Monogamy Myth," "Preventing Affairs" and Host of Dear Peggy.com
